Don't stop at failure

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After reading the title, you might be thinking, "What's going on? Why is the title like this?" Let me tell you. This blog is for people who don't try to take any action towards challenging things, and if they do, they face failure, which leaves them with a bad experience that discourages them from trying again in the future. Before taking any action, we tend to overthink: 1. The trophies or rewards are already in my lot; I might throw a party after I have them. 2. I'm just here to enjoy the process. 3. I do not have any experience with this. What if I do something wrong and people start judging me for it? Apparently, you would have many things to think about. If you fall into the category of people who think like point 1 or 2, there's nothing wrong with it. However, if you think like point 3, you should take action and do something about it. Perhaps, making such decisions saves you from upcoming anxious or frightful situations. Nevertheless, this habit of putt...
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Want to become introvert or extrovert

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I understand the concept of this blog or article. It's not about the conventional meaning of "extrovert" and "introvert" but rather about the modern terms of being shy or confident.


When you picture an introvert, the first image that comes to mind is often a person holding a book, not caring about the world, feeling anxious, and lacking social skills. On the other hand, an extrovert is seen as someone confident, self-assured, and content with themselves, often reaching out to talk to people when alone.


There might be a desire to switch from one personality type to another, but many people claim you can't change it. However, the author disagrees with this notion.


Using these terms to hide insecurities or weaknesses so that one doesn't have to face meeting a large number of people or dealing with certain individuals to form a small group is not a valid approach.


For those wanting to transition from an introvert to an extrovert:


1. Don't worry about making every stranger a friend. Instead, ask yourself if you just want someone to assist you, work with, talk to, or share stories with. Realize that everyone has similar desires.

2. Go outside and say "hi" to the person you are interested in and crack a silly line. Engaging in good enough conversations can lead to making friends, networking, or forming acquaintances. If you fail, don't be concerned as you can't make every person on Earth happy, and there are millions (or billions for Indians) of other people out there.


For those wanting to transition from an extrovert to an introvert:


1. It's not easy, but you can achieve it by saying "no" to invitations for conversations. The more you decline, the fewer invitations you'll receive, and people will interact less with you. It might seem depressing, but it opens up opportunities to focus on other things like attending seminars, learning, studying for competitions, and more.


Please note that this blog/article provides insights into the subject and encourages readers to break free from conventional thinking about extroversion and introversion, emphasizing that personality change is possible with determination.

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